I had been struggling today to decide on what to write about. Not having any particular thing in mind, I turned my attention to my Google Reader, to catch up on the genealogy blogs I follow. In doing so, I came across a post made earlier this month by Sheryl Lazarus on her blog “A Hundred Years Ago” about ironing. It brought to mind two pieces of family lore about irons and ironing.
The first story is about my Aunt Georgia and my Grandma Taylor. When the ironing had to be done, Aunt Georgia told me that to pass the time, she and my grandmother would read poetry to one another. They would take turns, one of them ironing, and the other reading aloud, until all the clothes were pressed. My Aunt Georgia’s favorite was “The Fool’s Prayer” by Edward Rowland Sill:
by: Edward Rowland Sill (1841-1887)
- The royal feast was done; the King
- Sought some new sport to banish care,
- And to his jester cried: “Sir Fool,
- Kneel now, and make for us a prayer!”
- The jester doffed his cap and bells,
- And stood the mocking court before;
- They could not see the bitter smile
- Behind the painted grin he wore.
- He bowed his head, and bent his knee
- Upon the Monarch’s silken stool;
- His pleading voice arose: “O Lord,
- Be merciful to me, a fool!
- “No pity, Lord, could change the heart
- From red with wrong to white as wool;
- The rod must heal the sin: but Lord,
- Be merciful to me, a fool!
- “‘T is not by guilt the onward sweep
- Of truth and right, O Lord, we stay;
- ‘T is by our follies that so long
- We hold the earth from heaven away.
- “These clumsy feet, still in the mire,
- Go crushing blossoms without end;
- These hard, well-meaning hands we thrust
- Among the heart-strings of a friend.
- “The ill-timed truth we might have kept–
- Who knows how sharp it pierced and stung?
- The word we had not sense to say–
- Who knows how grandly it had rung!
- “Our faults no tenderness should ask.
- The chastening stripes must cleanse them all;
- But for our blunders — oh, in shame
- Before the eyes of heaven we fall.
- “Earth bears no balsam for mistakes;
- Men crown the knave, and scourge the tool
- That did his will; but Thou, O Lord,
- Be merciful to me, a fool!”
- The room was hushed; in silence rose
- The King, and sought his gardens cool,
- And walked apart, and murmured low,
- “Be merciful to me, a fool!”
| “The Fool’s Prayer” is reprinted from The Little Book of American Poets: 1787-1900. Ed. Jessie B. Rittenhouse. Cambridge: Riverside Press, 1915. |
The second story of ironing is about my brother, Tim. At one point in his young age, Tim liked to iron when he would visit my Grandma Newell’s house. For hours I’m told, he would pretend to iron, using a container of baby powder as his iron of choice. Back and forth his little arm would go, smoothing out the wrinkles of imaginary pieces of fabric.
At some point, the family decided that since he liked to iron so much, they would get him a toy iron so he could play with a “real” iron. The gift was given, and the family waited to watch Tim with his new toy. From what I’m told, he picked it up, set it aside, and went right on “ironing” with his baby powder box!
The toy iron did get some use though; when I was old enough, I played with it. :)
Thanks, Sheryl, for inspiring me to share these stories!
Thanks for the nice mention of my blog. It’s always wonderful to hear when one of my posts resonates and provides inspiration.
It’s awesome how your aunt and grandmother would take turns reading and doing the ironing. I can remember my mother saying that when she was a child, one child would read a story aloud while the others washed and dried the dishes. I think that technology changes have resulted in the lose of some nice traditions over the years.
Very true. I can remember helping my Mom with ironing too. I can remember she had a little stopper that fit into the bottle that she would put the water in to sprinkle the clothes. It would only let enough water out to sprinkle them. I seem to remember that it was a Coke bottle she used to put the water in, but that might be my memory playing tricks on me.
It isn’t just changing technology that has lost some great traditions. I used to love hanging clothes outside with my Mom. Nowadays though, there are rules in Home Owners’ Associations and ordinances that prohibit the practice in some areas.